Wednesday, September 15, 2010

I Write Sins, Not Tragedies


This Post is for those, who feel lost, confused, or simply are too afraid to try again.
(Or random people who just view blogs for fun) 



Have you ever thought of completely giving up?

Have you ever felt as if all hope is lost?

Don't be afraid to try again.

Have you fallen?

Get up again.

Have you failed?

Try again.

Did you thoughts deceive you?

Then think again.

Did you lose sight of your goals?

Then DREAM again

Your dream didn't work out?

Then DREAM a better DREAM

Isn't that the point of life? To fall , and rise again?

They put erasers on pencils for a reason.
Don't be afraid to try again.
But then again, Faith without action is dead. Dreams will only take you so far. You have to work for them too.
Don't just dream. Dream AND DO.

“The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live.”

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Do or die, you'll never make me, because the world, will never take my heart.

        We can't deny that everyday, millions of people, be it students or even adults, or maybe even you  feel a little fear or maybe even be totally scared to go to school or work because of bullying. It's sick and wrong. 

        Well, I say, that bullies are cowards. They physically, verbally, and psychologically hurt their victims because they think their stronger and superior, or they may think their victims are different and weaker. They lash out their insecurities on their victims, and are cowards who resent their fear, turning it into anger towards their victims. In fact, to deal with a bully, you have to show that you are braver than them by standing for yourself, and ignoring them.

     
     If you are being bullied, there are many different ways of facing the bully. The easiest way is to become a friend. For me the best way to defeat an enemy, is for you to stop being enemies and to start being friends. Bullies, though cowards, may just feel isolated and be lonely. Try being nice and friendly to him. If this doesn't work however, then start standing up for yourself. Don't think that my message means fighting the bully physically. Ignore the bully, because the only reason the bully continues his behavior is because he gets what he wants- fear and power. Show that your brave and stand your ground. The bully may leave you alone. However, if this continues, then tell a teacher, parent, or responsible adult. Don't think that this is a sign of cowardice. It takes courage for one to stand up for themselves and for their rights. Standing up for yourself is the most important part of solving bullying. 



Ignore the bully; walk away. Bullies thrive on the reaction they get, and if you walk away, or ignore hurtful insults, you're telling the bully that you just don't care.

Hold your anger. Stay positive. Don't let the bully get to you.


Don't get physical. You can stand up for yourself in different ways, such as  by walking away or by ignoring the bully. Violence is never the answer.

BE confident. SHOW to the BULLY that you are not vulnerable.